I was once told that everyone has tragedy. It is part of life. But drama is created. There will always be death, there will always be heartache and heartbreak. But the drama? Self created? Or the product of your surroundings.
Some people go through life thinking that you are suppose to have drama and tragedy both throughout your entire life. This, however is untrue. Tragedy can turn into drama, unnecessary drama. IT is all on how you react to it. How you handle yourself.
If you surround yourself with honest people, will be very rare to have drama. Honest people don’t talk behind your back, they say it to your face. Then you either deal with it then, or let it go. There isn’t the fake to your face aspect of the situation. I went 28 years with drama. I thought that it was normal. That family and friends are allowed to treat you that way and you just dealt with it. But a year ago, my whole world changed. I lost 2 of my best friends in the world, along with the woman I called Mom and her entire family I had grown to love. All because of drama. When I had no choice but to lose these people, it was freeing to see the negativity melt away from my life. Did I miss them, yes. But I didn’t miss the negativity. I didn’t realize hoe negative they ALL were until I wasn’t around them anymore.
I have truly grown to appreciate the friends I have. I have let go of the things I can’t change. Worrying does no one any good.
Holding a grudge is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die. To free yourself from drama, take a step back and analyze your life. What makes you happy? What people in your life cause you more trouble then they do contribute to it?