It has been my experience that if you look on the bright side of things, you will always be happy! It has come to my attention that I have had negative people around me. In the past, I was the negative Nancy. I have even been given the nickname "Nazi No Fun" because of my attitude about things.
And once you find your happy, you need to limit yourself from negative energy. Always be grateful for the things you DO have, there are people happy with less than what you have.
As long as you do what you need to do to make you happy, everything else will fall into place. You can't join in other people's misery. Let them deal with their lives and disappointments.
1. Don't make other people's problems your own! Think to yourself.... "Does this effect me?" No...therefore it is none of your business and you are putting more drama and negativity by inviting it.
2. Don't comment on things that are none of your concern. This is a HARD one for anyone. But sometimes, if you take a look at your own comments, that you may be stirring the pot without even realizing that is what you are doing.
3. Be thankful that you have a roof over your head, food on the table, and healthy family that loves you. That is all you can really ask for. Sometimes we take for granted things we think are a must, but there are many that go without. When work gets stressful.....tell yourself at least you have a job, to earn money for your family. When family drama starts to get crazy..... remember they are alive and well and there is ALWAYS time to fix it!
4. Never EVER say NEVER! There is NOTHING in this world that can't be fixed. It might not be exactly what you want at the end, it may not be a perfect relationship, but GOD brings you to what you need when he feels like you need it.
5. Do everything with a KIND heart, and you will never be disappointed.
And once you find your happy, you need to limit yourself from negative energy. Always be grateful for the things you DO have, there are people happy with less than what you have.
As long as you do what you need to do to make you happy, everything else will fall into place. You can't join in other people's misery. Let them deal with their lives and disappointments.
1. Don't make other people's problems your own! Think to yourself.... "Does this effect me?" No...therefore it is none of your business and you are putting more drama and negativity by inviting it.
2. Don't comment on things that are none of your concern. This is a HARD one for anyone. But sometimes, if you take a look at your own comments, that you may be stirring the pot without even realizing that is what you are doing.
3. Be thankful that you have a roof over your head, food on the table, and healthy family that loves you. That is all you can really ask for. Sometimes we take for granted things we think are a must, but there are many that go without. When work gets stressful.....tell yourself at least you have a job, to earn money for your family. When family drama starts to get crazy..... remember they are alive and well and there is ALWAYS time to fix it!
4. Never EVER say NEVER! There is NOTHING in this world that can't be fixed. It might not be exactly what you want at the end, it may not be a perfect relationship, but GOD brings you to what you need when he feels like you need it.
5. Do everything with a KIND heart, and you will never be disappointed.